Obits. Philadelphia. Randy Kraftson, Fred Phillips

 

Randy Kraftson used to debate his Presbyterian predestination. He and Dave Harvey were civil war buffs, a further contest against the entitled. We together taught a junior h.s. youth group Sunday nights. Later he asked me in a nice way that he thought i was upstaging him in front of the kids. I could not admit to it, however i owe him because we were on an outing with these kids, my little brother along too, playing touch football at Valley forge. I had the ball and he was defending so I put on him the world's best fake, planted right to go left, all the more, and heard a loud pop, fell to the ground. They took the body to Bryn Mawr ER, my father got angry at my brother for telling him the news. He was one his way somewhere. It was 6 Pm Sunday. late summer '62. I was on my way somewhere too, to Costa Rica in Jan, so I wore crutches a while and tolerated my knee popping out there when i played one on one basketball. On return, 1963 they did the medial cartilage op, but missed the ACL.  That was before MRI, which  resulted that in '67 when i was called for the draft physical in Des Moine with a busload of fodder, the ortho doc could wiggle the knee in his hands and i flunked the test, meaning when they put their hands up i watched. so i did not go to Vietnam, but to Texas instead. I trace this to that moment at 11 in the Korean war, when walking alone on a Sat morn early, a covering came upon me from above with the realization that i did not ever want to kill. So Randy Kraftson is owed a debt as the instrumental cause  of that realization. Much obliged.

RAYMOND KRAFTSON OBITUARY

Raymond Harry Kraftson, an accomplished attorney and businessman who lived most of his life in Bala Cynwyd and Villanova, PA, died peacefully on February 21st, 2020 at the age of 79 in West Chester, PA. Ray, to his friends, and Randy, to his family, was born on June 20th, 1940 in Drexel Hill, PA to Harry and Elisabeth Kraftson and was the eldest of six (Judith Ann, Timothy, Meredith, Constance and Claudia). He is survived by his beloved wife of 55 years, Marguerite, nee Knewstub, of Devon, PA; four children, Donald (Ann) Kraftson, Marguerite Kraftson, Audrey Kraftson and Michele (Brian) Griffin; and three grand-children, Brooke and Charles Kraftson and Cecilia Sikdar. Ray was a member of the first graduating class of the Delaware County Christian School, where his father was President of the Board. He earned his B.A. from the University of Pennsylvania and J.D. from the College of William and Mary, Marshall Wythe School of Law where he was Editor of the Law Review. He began his career as a trial attorney at the Securities and Exchange Commission and then joined the Philadelphia law firm of Ringe, Peet and Mason. He moved to in-house counsel roles at Monsanto, Life Assurance Company of Pennsylvania, INA (now CIGNA) and Safeguard Scientifics where he was General Counsel and Secretary. He served as General Counsel and raised capital for Safeguard’s portfolio company, Novell, which changed computing worldwide through technology contributing to the emergence of local area networks (LANs). Ray finished his career as a businessman and entrepreneur, initially as President of Ailes Communications where he had previously served on the board for 15 years during which time Ailes guided the successful political campaigns of George H.W. Bush, Margaret Thatcher and many U.S. Senators and Governors. Ray also founded Ariane Capital Partners, growing it into a top ten private fund placement agent. He served on the boards of numerous other companies including Hoffman Surgical in Conshohocken, PA and particularly enjoyed his board associations with The Baldwin School, Gladwyne Montessori School and InFaith. He was a long-standing member of the Philadelphia Club and the Merion Cricket Club where he enjoyed dancing on the porch with his wife and three daughters. Business colleagues knew Ray for his compelling arguments, bow ties, colorful suspenders, precisely folded pocket squares and speedy driving to meetings. While Ray certainly enjoyed travel in fast cars, he loved long trips on trains and would coordinate his travel around their schedules. He was a gentleman, a voracious reader and Civil War buff. Ray’s Christian faith was exhibited by his dedication to St. David’s Episcopal Church, where his father-in-law, John Knewstub, had served as Rector for many years. Ray was a member of the vestry, Junior Warden, Property and Capital Campaign Chairman and influential in recruiting St. David’s current Rector, Frank Allen. A skilled mechanic and race car driver, he could be found in his garage listening to classical music while preparing his antique/classic/race cars, motorcycles and boats for his next adventure. During the early 70’s, he piloted his MGB to many Sports Car Club of America wins, lap records and three top-three finishes at the SCCA National Championship Runoffs at Road Atlanta. Ray restored four antique Chris Craft mahogany speed boats powering them with modern engines. He loved surprising other boats on Lake Winnipesaukee, NH where he cherished vacation time with his family. In his later years, he could be seen (and heard) in his 1955 MGTF which he had restored specifically for a three-month tour of Europe in 1972 with his wife and son. A service celebrating Ray’s life will be held at 9:15am on Saturday, March 7th at St. David’s Episcopal Church in Wayne, PA. Donations in Ray’s memory can be made to St. David’s Church at stdavidschurch.org/giving.

Published by Main Line Media News from Feb. 28 to Mar. 8, 2020

 

Frederick Carrington Philips II  1939-2013

I have always been a stranger and foreigner, fellow citizen with the saints and of the household of God and given to walk among formed people as friends. Finding at the death obit of Fred Phillips he was born the day before my brother 25 Oct 1939 with whom I had the diametric opposite relation is startling because those days were unconscious, therefore true. I knew him in high school in that one year, studied together to black coffee in my room. I never was in his house, he was two years older but in h.s. with me suggests a gap. We drove back and forth to Drexel in his car often, arguing, dialoguing the testimony of Jesus. I took him to Oliver B. Greene once I recall. He was a darling of Jim Fallon of philosophy class and went to the colloquies at Fallon’s house, he who spent three weeks on what happens to an acorn when smashed. I remember he and Bill Franklin in the foyer of our house jousting with karate hands.  Nobody jousted with me though, it was all mental.  He won three purple hearts and a  bronze star.We visited the extravaganzas of Dewitt Jayne together. That I would know but not know such sublimities is evidence of cadency, falling, but not falling, since after I returned from San Jose, at the funeral in Bala Cynwyd Fred appeared to offer his condolences. Maybe the last time I saw him. Unlucky in love, married three times, he said you might as well marry rich, and did, but it failed him.  An Ltc in wars! I often tried to trace him later, but could not until his death. He lived on Stone Island FL. -his daughter, Kathleen Heming.  "He leaves his daughter, Kathleen Heming and her husband, Jay Nardone, two grandchildren, Ian and Mikaela, brother George Siglin, sisters Susan Hendricks and Katherine Santino and several members of his birth family. He will be missed by his daughter-in-spirit, Katherine Leidenberg and her brother James Blythe and their families." 5/19/22

To Norma Phillips, 1440 Stone Trail, Enterprise, FL 32725

The Violent Bear It Away. Flannery O'Connor

Asking Jesus to "stab me in the heart," is full Gael, and O'Connor should be seen among those great extremes as no less a religious figure than Yeats, who was plenty of that. Without her violence we would not know how the violent can carry the kingdom of God away,  but that is as prophetic as the "Second Coming," where "The ceremony of innocence is drowned; / The best lack all conviction, while the worst / Are full of passionate intensity." If you have not and are not seeing the Violent Bear it Away that is because it has been shielded from your eyes by such distractions as applied, which it is the business of O'Connor to annihilate, hence all the images of fire in her work.

The sun on the tree line, a red mammoth, the wood thrush's four notes, the forked birch that frames the sky on the first cover of the two chimneys, the burned clearing, open mouthed, the breeze on his neck, a threat that encircles him with its violet shadow and talks to him so that he lights the tree on fire, torches the now burning bushes and the whole landscape as a prelude to the Calling Feeding of the 5000, in Ch. 12 sees in the cornfield, the wall of the woods, black Buford on his mule, who mounded the uncle's grave, all amid the hunger, loaves and fishes, night streaks of the red hunger tide rising in Abel's blood cleansed by the red gold tree of fire that consumes the darkness, like the fire in the furnace, Elijah, Moses' burning bush burning anointed by a raised grave as he heads with the speed of mercy to the city to preach, fulfill the call.

Without the powerful extremes infused into this writing, the stores lose all their power, for we are always alert fro the next apocalypse to break in, when Mrs. Greenleaf rocks back and for, "Jesus, stab me in the heart," as her act of devotion. With out all the invocations of violence to Jesus these works translate into  domestic chit chat  of laundry women with their betters. But another powerful validation for its favor is in the preservation of that time when a black person could be glorified into a N, a primal force, an unknowable god, while at the same time a denigration, for that suits to a T the white critical world to celebrate its racist heart while glorifying it. These became the upright moralists who inherited the tradition of Bonhoeffer. 

This does not any way negate the beauty of her prose, the burning tree of the mammoth sun on the tree line. He who made all things can honor all things. So Tarwater as opposed to holy water, the designated prophet who seeks to avoid his call, like Jonah, anoints himself in the grave of his uncle, fills his face in the dirt, that gives him the black eyes at least, as all this overlooks the cornfield, the field white unto harvest, wheat and chaff, and the feeding of the 5000 in his hunger and non hunger at it all. 
These are some readers notes for riders to this stupendous UnRagnarok.

  If you are wanting to transverse the spiritual realm of the pain and horror of this calling of the imagination and are reading Christian authors to get you there you should know how the good live and die. Thomas Merton died with a faulty wired fan in the middle of his chest in Bangkok. Al Cameron died with a full fledged stroke heart attack in the Walmart. Alex died with a wish to shut him up. Art G died with 8 years of Alzheimer. Rev O as a recluse abandoned on a bed in a home unannointed, and that is on me. They glorify Bonhoeffer's death, but do not imitate it. They bow down in their living rooms. Dr. King, JFK died from their lusts. Cut to the chase why don't you. So also went Sister Celine. Charles Williams taught Lewis to trade his own life for anothers. John Cullen of a sudden illness in a day. So to explain the violence I look at Savannah, of Conrad Aiken too, and his corpuscular consciousness, and therefore Ambrose Gorden to whom I gave some octopus meat to illustrate, but the land the islands the inlets the swamps the humidity must have more to do with it than the  human. Why just looking to join the two I check to see if Roseanne Potter was from there, by association, find she died two days ago. In the transactions of suffering Clannery is asking for the grace to seek to suffer. Her podcasters do not celebrate that verse thought,  "to know Christ— the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death." In the gothic southern style this gets dramatic play in the violent bear it away. Did you know the charismatics corner stone of dominion is to take the kingdom of heaven by force? To be swallowed up in the fire, what could be better? If you have lived this way all of life in this medieval fire of unknowing in the fhe furnace, burning, not burning, you can read ch. 12 of The Violent. 

 "Dear God, 

I cannot love Thee the way I want to. You are the slim crescent of a moon that I see and my self is the earth’s shadow that keeps me from seeing all the moon. The crescent is very beautiful and perhaps that is all one like I am should or could see; but what I am afraid of, dear God, is that my self shadow will grow so large that it blocks the whole moon, and that I will judge myself by the shadow that is nothing. I do not know you God because I am in the way. Please help me to push myself aside."

 That she addresses the Father of Lights in whom is no shadow of turning who oversees and inhabits creation to the sparrow on the altar, as so abstract, I take her to the Mennonite, The real life and death causes of extreme sacrifice, pacifists and militants who background this moral in all regions and times, now focus on Pinter's America and the West. Two sides of uneconomic coin oppose the cultural West of every Greek myth, Proteus everywhere, Dionysius liberated, Orpheus inebriated. Let us call them Mennonites and Muslims, lack of self defense and counter offense, who think the knock at the door, the firing gun, the sirens are for them. Iraqis and Mennonites pray at start of day, before they plow a field or eat a meal. They pray on the way to market and mosque that they may live or die. They pray past the hospital up the way to school. Hospitals, markets are full of victims, fuller than prisons. When American reporters honk their horns they get out their prayers.

But you should read Fox's Martyrs first to bone up on your techniques, and the inquisitions and all in one The Book of Mennonite Martyrs Flannery does not know, where Mennonites and Muslims, but at the same time verbalize that Flannery's brillant acceptance is not also because she expresses the gospel according to Thomas Jefferson and Count Tolstoy who could not abide Jesus the Blessed any more than Tarwater. How far satire goes to replicate the very thing it mocks is a matter for Goethe whose young Werther sparked a rash of suicides, so which O'Conner is uproariously funny to a Christian, she gives aid and comfort to the enemy beside. The very formal address of the prayer journal of words if of the heart need never be spoken might have been sent to the universe.Her podcasts do not celebrate that verse thought, "to know Christ— the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death." In the gothic southern style this gets dramatic play in the violent bear it away. Did you know the charismatics corner stone of dominion is to take the kingdom of heaven by force? To be swallowed up in the fire, what could be better? If you have lived this way all of life in this medieval fire of unknowing in the fhe furnace, burning, not burning, you can read ch. 12 of The Violent.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13067179-the-violent-bear-it-away